Sorry I missed the bat signal earlier ... I have had my hands full ... lol
SO you have had excellent advice .. and its crazy how I was just where you are now not long ago. W basically rubbing the A in my face and how wonderful and happy she was .. in fact our M was the last string she needed to cut to be free, funny how that string was a life line for her and deep down she knew it.
As far as the D or mediation, yeah .. let her talk to your L, she can not afford a L ... that falls under the Not Your Circus ... Not Your Monkeys Tent. I do think that given a chance ... you let your W know ... now that you have seemed to accept its hard ball time, give her the good ole "Make no mistake about this .. I will Co-Parent with you to the best of my abilities for the sake of our children, but you and I will not be friends, you fired me remember, I do not need friends who would act and do the things you have done" In her head she had it all played out how this would work ... her getting upset over being blocked on FB shows that ... she wants her cake, all of her cake.
As far as counseling ... yeah .. save your time and money .. TRUST me. You are better off baptizing a cat. W told me her and OM were over, like a fool I took that and RAN as fast as I could to MC .... 2 sessions it was obvious OM and W were alive and well, she only wanted to use MC ot get along better .... truth is its hard to get along with someone in constant crisis and full of guilt, which we get to receive via spew ... the OP at this stage would never be treated the way they treat us..... but soon ... you just have to let that A play out and keep walking your walk.
