FY, I'm so happy that you both enjoyed your time away. I think it was a good trip because both of you could relax and leave the daily stressors at home.
Your trip was fun and educational and I'm sure you both enjoyed the ruins and the many activities that were available.
FY, I know there are times when you want to toss in the towel, but look how far you both have come. Her climb to the top of the MLC mountain is so much harder for her. I know you hear this from me all of the time, but...dig deeper for patience.
I admire the way that you've handled your situation and I want to see both of you cross that finish line and find your way back to each other. Sending you a dozen patience shovels to help you along the way.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.