My STBXW seems very upset that I have "cut her out of her life". That seemed like a strange comment. She is also very upset the I blocked her on FB.
Does this strike anyone as immature? Who cares about freaking FB?
Why does she care if I have "cut her from my life." That was her choice when she fired me.
I am interpreting that to mean, I no longer answer the majority of her texts or phone calls - unless it's about the kids. I don't call her or text unless it's about kids stuff.
This feels like pursuit and distance to me. I am not pursuing. If she feels so upset about it, why does she continue down this D path?
Is this too many why's? Probably, I guess I will never know why. Inconsistency really bothers me. I am a professional and logical person. I deal in black and white all day long. I made "deals" with vendors all day long. I negotiate with clinets all day long. I don't wonder what their motivations are so I guess I have to lump my STBXW into this category and just not worry about the behind the scences aspects of it?
She repeats that I don't value her as a person but only as a wife. I don't know how to respond to that statement.
How about - I do value you as an independent person who is 100% responsible for her feelings, emotions and behaviors regardles of the status of our relationship.
