Hmmm... I will have to work on the inlaw thing seeing how none of them called to say one word (with the exception of W Uncle). Everyone else was NADA. 20 years with these folks and nothing. I have lent money to these people, celebrated births, mourned death, spent countless hours at their house and them at our house.
Maybe I will make this one of my longer term goals - try to keep friendly relationships with former inlaws for the sake of kids.
As for W - she asked if I had kids enrolled in Summer Camp for Thursday and Friday. I replied no and left it at that. I then felt that was not enough of an answer, so I replied, No, no summer camp, we are going to XXXX. She replied if you are leaving for XX can I keep the kids one more day? I replied via text "I am sorry but we have already made other plans."
I am trying to be short, sweet, to the point and the main thing POLITE.