Even if she agreed to go to MC I don't see it helping. Shes just too checked out to take it seriously, even if it was just about communication for the kids. She would be on the defense about it being some covert ploy to make the M work.
I wasn't suggesting that we do this. It was never on her agenda anyway.
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If you want to do the letter I say go for it also, just understand its purpose. You state your position from a healthy place, no need to do it again after this. You have to let go from this point on and let things play out how ever they play out. You planted the thought in her head on your position, it may never lead to anything but its done.
Yes, this is the last time I go over this subject with her again. I'm not procrastinating any more. I was detaching quite nicely so I don't feel the need to continually go over old ground.
Anyway, email send. Expect a spew fest.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.