Rip -

I hear you. I've been dealing with the same things. My kids are going to day care during the summer on Mondays and Thursdays just so that we don't have to interact. But we still find some times to interact though admittedly rather rarely - we do still have kids together.

I don't see a way to not give them the key.

At BD - Me: 33 Her: 33; M: 10 T: 15; D: 6 and 3

BD: 3/25/15
S: 4/20/15
D: 11/9/15