RosaLinda, My mind is non-stop pondering....it's crazy. Don't worry about overwhelming me with info, I so need all the help I can get.
I didn't well last evening because it looks like my husband is possibly starting to turn into alcohol and my oldest daughter was very upset. I fell asleep crying & praying for him.
I didn't realize that the goals needed to be something I needed to have control over & that it could be somthing not related to him?
Do I need to do 2 sets of goals? Personal & for Him?
Or do I not even set goal/baby steps for our marriage until I see him do some turn around?
I already realized that our marriage was not perfect & I was like a mother to him not his partner, I was the planner, organizer, the fixer, the rescuer, the pep talker, the encourager....nothing more...it makes me sad to think about it but it is the truth & I had asked myself a while back, if this was really the life I was suppose to have ! I wasn't happy either but I married for life & for better or worse. NOT interfering is anybody's life soooo sounds good to me. It makes me happy !! Nothing sounds preachy to me, don't worry. I am trying to sleep & eat but not doing to well on that either, lost 22lbs in 40days
Again, thank you so much for all the help you are giving me. It is 10:30am here in Canada
