Heavy,
Good luck on the new job. I really dig your PMA and am a little jealous of your extended weekend/Hawaii vacation.

I agree with everyone in regards to the ex-in laws. As long as you are able to stay detached, it's totally your prerogative.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15