Underdog, I'm sort of butting in on your thread, but I think it was you who posted on someone else's thread (rotzilla's maybe?) about letting your dh have more control. Can you give any specific examples of that?
I'm very controlling in our relationship and would like to be less so, but don't know how. I handle all of the money and bills (dh says he wants it that way & doesn't even have or want an ATM card), I take care of buying all of the gifts & kids' clothing & household stuff (and even his clothing, to be honest), I make about 95% of our social plans...I don't like it but don't know how to change it! He claims that it doesn't bother him (he hates shopping, for example).
