K - thanks for that vapo. Not really my question about the kids.

Really question is if I give them the key and allow her to pick them up, that's giving her all the control to have ZERO interaction with me. Is that really what I should do?

again, my question is on future interaction with ww, not kids at home.

M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23