It's simple for me. My mind has not changed. The path is clear should she want to return to the M. Failing that we split.
You see, I believe that the latest email, like all others and the conversations are all about her wanting two things. First, she wants me to be 'all in' on the split. It validates her decisions. She has even said to me in the past that I couldn't have been happy during our M. So no, I'm not going to do that for her.
Second, by attempting to pin me down and force me to say to sell the house she has offset the guilt onto me. It's NDY's fault we had to move. NDY is the reason we lost our dream home etc etc.
Neither of these things are true. I was happy during my M and I do not want to sell and move. As she is the one that wants the D to happen then so be it. I at least can say one last time I know what I stand for.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
