Well tried to fill out paper work last night. Every thing was going great until she tried to change a few things. First it was day care, she wanted me to start paying for half her daycare. I've never done that so that was a no. Then was health care. She wants me to keep her on my insurance. Because she can't get insurance or afford it. Well, this part I jumped on and probably shouldn't have been my old self on (my way o the highway, no compromise). I just didn't want to be taken for granted or be any part of her life in that way. After she left when I said no, she called back and bagged. I offered a compromise. Stating that is fine and can stay on my insurance but you will start paying for it. She didn't like that either. So I stated that I'll meet you at the court house with my lawyer then. Wow, really didn't like that. She calmed down and we finished some more over the phone.
Durning the convo she was getting mad that I'm not careing about her anymore and not being nice guy. I simply told her that after the divorce she is on her own and not under my wing of protection. My job is to take care of me and my kids. And that's all the court will say also. Kept asking what's changed and I told her that I just want I move on and be done with this all. That I don't need to take care of my ex wife anymore.
Then she bought up the extension on it. I asked what would be the reason to have the extension. She stated that she is not sure about every thing. I asked what that meant and if she could give me a better reason. She said it's the same old reason that she is not happy. She is unsure about every thing. And she can't explain every thing to me because it's all to complicated. I said that's fine I'm sorry you can't explain. But I would like to go into Wenesdays court and move forward with the divorce. We set another court date to finish every thing up. She wanted together today to try and finish all the paperwork.
Letting god take this!
Love 3kids
M36/W30 S13,D10,S6 Married 4.5 together 12 Bomb 1/14 EA/PA OM 1/14 still going Served 2/14/14 Separated 3/14 D paused 6/14 6/15 divorced