hey RD,
just a question. it seems as if your wife wants to lay all her problem at your feet as if you are her gay boyfriend.

when this happens, have you ever just asked her if she wants you to listen or actually wants advice.

the reason i ask is if a neighbor CONSTANTLY laid their problems at our feet, would you, or any of us, continually subject ourselves to that negativity.

i am really proud of your patience with her as i would have told her long ago that this is what she wanted.

best of luck and praying for you.


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I wish I could love you and make you believe it
'Cause that's all you ever wanted
From me