Thank you AJ. It's funny how life throws us curveballs we could never imagine coming our way. om having a heart attack? They didn't prepare me for this in our marriage prep course.
I am handling this well, if I do say so myself. I do not wish the om harm. I say an occasional prayer for him, that he be blessed with a R with someone else, someone who is available, or that he be blessed with lotsa work, just that he stop interfering in our marriage.
I have not snooped to see what W is posting on FB about this. I was a little tempted just to see what om looks like, but I've staid away so far. -------------- S13 had another game tonight. W texted me to see if I could bring him back to W's place when the game was over. W had to leave the game by 6:45. I agreed without asking what was going on or any q's.
When I got to the game W was there on one side of the field. I stopped by and said "hi". We discussed d17 finally getting her final high school project in. I did not ask how W was doing, or how om was doing (after yesterday's heart attack) - these topics were none of my concern. Then W was on her phone texting, giving it her full attention for several minutes, and so I excused myself, and I went to the other side of the field to sit down.
I sent texts to d19 while I was over there, realizing how this would look. When it was time to leave she came over and gave me a hug (why?) and asked about why I needed my upcoming surgery. I told her, and she left.
Oh, and btw, s13's team won beating the 2nd place team, and he played well again. A 180 for me, I was striking up convo's with some of the other parents and that was fun. And it was a gorgeous night.
