Last week, I talked to the mutual friend attorney that will be writing the final decree. I sent her an email and provided all the information she needed (VIN's, legal descriptions for property, account numbers, etc.). I outlined it all, everything that W and I had agreed to as far as asset split was concerned. For those of you who aren't following my sitch, I still don't want a divorce, but WW shows no signs of changing her mind or even budging, so I must protect myself financially. Besides, there's nothing I can do to change her mind anyways, right? I should focus on me.
The attorney responded to my email and cc'ed my WW. She said:
"I'm happy that you 2 have reached an agreement and I'm glad to assist, but only if you both agree to it. Before I begin writing your decree, WW, please let me know if you agree to waive any conflict and have me draft up your agreements. I sent you a text on this last week but did not get a response from you. Thriver and WW – please cc each other on all emails."
That was on Thursday, 6/4. Today is Monday, 6/8, and still no response from WW.
Here's what I don't get...8 months ago, WW was gung ho about filing for the divorce, splitting stuff up, kicking me out of her life, separating and moving on with her life. Now, I can't even get her to return a simple email or text message about these subjects. Is this normal behavior for a WW? Any advice on how to handle this?
Me: 34 W: 30 Together: 11 years Married: 4 years BD: 4/2014 A Discovered: 5/2014 WW Filed: 7/2014 Separated: 8/2014 Divorced: 10/2015
