We have 50/50 so 2 weekday days with me, 2 with her and alternate weekends.

I'm not really sure what to say. Her point (without mind reading) is that she wants the boys the minute she's off work. So whether that's me dropping them off on my way to work that day (when she's not there) and still being able to lock my house or her picking them up on her way home (when I'm not there) and giving them a key, she's fine with either.

I've always been fine with them having and using their key they have to the house when they would walk home from school, so hard to now say I have a problem with them having a key to my place.

Really not sure how to approach it


M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23