1. Reread sandi's 37 rules prior to any interaction. 2. Pray (or if you don't pray visualize). For me my most common prayer was to let my desires and will go and be open to what God's will was, to let go of my weak and needy emotions and to be allowed to detach and to be filled with the courage to live the way he wants. 3. Power poses. Check out the TED talk on power poses on Youtube to increase confidence and decision making before key encounters.
As for kids and schedules, while I don't disagree there is no rush. Slow way down and resist the urges to 'do something'. Work on yourself and only take action after serious reflection.
Also- I'd recommend a DB coach.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
