RosaLinda, the only goals I wrote go from: Better/More intimacy Socializing more Comunication more deeply
To: I would like him home for x-mas I would like to be able to go for dinner even if still separated I would like to be able to do fun things together-go to the movie or fishing even if still separated. I would like for him to call/text me to chat about our day not just a good day or goodnight.
What I am doing to detach is at the moment is not texting him or calling him first & keep replies short & to the point.
Thank you all for all the help, I really appreciate it.