Question though - how are we ever going to talk about things, life, stuff as long as the AP is in the picture? Do you recommend co parenting counselling as a way to just talk to her or is that off the table as well. I feel pretty creeped out discussing our family issues knowing she is telling her AP the details. Yuck.
Is the point to just keep living my life and not talk to her (except cool breezy convos about kids)? These exchanges are brief and happen only once per week.
It's like we are radio silent for a week or so and then a flurry of talking activity happens and then we go back to silence. She said today that she wants to talk to me about 6 times a day but can't. It is frustrating.
