Since made dinner and breakfast as that hasn’t stopped. I have to do almost all the chores now though.
Why?
I dont know, she just doesn't anymore, or her fair share i should say. Its like she is doing to me what she felt i did to her in the beginning of the issues to be honest, even before the A i mean. Anyways, something like the dishes i tried to DB and test her and literally went 4 days where neither of us did them so i got to the point i couldn't take it and did them. Obviously she was waiting for me because i KNOW it bothered her to have them sitting there, lol. IS that me caving? i dont know... i see it as part of the 'improved me' since i didn't do them before. If i stay on top of them, what is 5 mins a night, right? Let me know if this is wrong though... this does add to if im the one being db'd also though like i mentioned earlier, i noticed the last couple weeks, she does only do 'hers' she only bring her dinner to the table so i have to get mine, and she only cleans her area. Same with other cleaning stuff like the laundry. She only does stuff affecting her directly, nothing with the house... Obviously in my opinion, when things were good, we should be taking terms and it doesn't matter 'whose is whose'...
