I was really trying to get us into counseling but she is not having ANY PART of it. I don't see how we will ever be able to talk to one another again if we don't get any counseling. She is just so resolute in her decision and so entrenched in A.
Here's a friendly reminder:
As long as there's a OW/OM in the picture, counseling is totally OUT of question. Counseling will only happen when the OW/OM is out of the picture. You only have to see Cali's sitch (and Crimson) to recognize this.
It's your desperation and fear that is leading you to open your mouth about counseling. You might want to sit on the fear sofa and talk to your Inner Child about those fears. Dig deep and work through those fears. Didn't you say that you already have a IC ? Might be a good place to start.
