Ok, so just caught up on GB's other posts to me.

I recon he is right. I agree with just about everything he says. This is a bad decision on her part. The path won't be easy. It is ok to point out that she's hindering my sons chances of a bright future.

And no, sitting on that beach in Cancun (I've been there) in my rented tux waiting for her to come back? Nah. Affirmative action.

Look, cadet said earlier about settling with WW and moving house. That affects all 3 of us. If that happens, and it's a real possibility then that will have a severe impact on all of our lives. If, and it's a big if, there is a chance of avoiding that why not take it?

So far I've tried to follow the DB principles to the letter (yea, I fell of the horse a few times) but I don't think GB's approach in any way contradicts the ethos of DB.

I'll need to tone down the religious parts, that won't work and yes, remove some of the rhetoric but I still think there needs to be one last throw of the dice. No?


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.