Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
I haven't read your sitch, but I saw the word Mensa and well....I swooned. I'm a smarty pants:)
Congrats to you. That's fabulous!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
Ha! Thanks - really just something I wasn't sure of and wanted to see if I could do it. Have been doing a lot physically (working out, running) and spiritual (meditation, going to temple), so trying something for my mind was a nice challenge.
Feeling much better today. Think all the GAL activities was causing me to run on fumes and lack of sleep increased my anxiety. All and all back to focusing on me, GAL and doing my 180s. Ready to look my best when I drop the boys off at ww tonite.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
So ww just contacted me. Wants me to give a key to the boys so she can pick them up on her way home from work (before I'm home) and they can lock up when they leave. This would mean going forward she would drop off and pick up without us EVER having any interaction.
Not sure how the going dark works, if this were to take place. But not being able to have any interaction I would think making DB tough because she won't see any changes/me at my best.
However, if I don't agree seems like I'm just trying to control the situation. What do you guys think?
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
No as in not allow that to happen? What reason do I give? just that I'm no comfortable with my place being locked/unlocked without me there?
Whenever I see the "noooooooo" I always think of that Darth Vader moment in episode 3 where he puts up his hands and screams over something he lost that he has no control over. Wasn't sure if that was a reference. That I should just accept it and I have no control over it or the exact opposite. I have control over logistics and just tell ww that won't work.
Her point is she gets off at 3:30 and when it's her day, why should she have to wait until I'm home at 5:30 when they are just sitting there waiting.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
Rip, I don't know how you prevent it. If you put your foot down, I think it defeats the purpose a little bit
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
Also, she just texted me that she is hiring a Real Estate agent and having them call me. Setting herself up for limited to no contact with me and selling what was our home.
She's ready to go. So this is triggering.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
