Thank you so much RosaLinda, I have such a HARD time letting him go so I can do this, I don't know why, I'm usually very strong and now Im so lost and weak. I guess that Im afraid he will forget me for ever and maybe be happier without me. My mind is a hard thing to turn off. I sat down last night and tried to do my goal list .....but I couldn't even do that
Cindy, do your daughters know what's going on? What would you do if one of THEM came to you, in a similar situation?
Sometimes if I have a hard time knowing what I should do for *myself* I can still summon up the "Papabear" in me and more easily decide how I would counsel one of my SONS if they were to come to me with an identical issue.
I'm sorry you're hurting; I went thru this myself 8 years ago, and it was the hardest thing I ever had to do.
