Yes, I did but she just rode right over that one. She doesn't care.
I know what you mean about KISS and STFU but this hasn't worked at all for the last few months. I'm trying to get across here that LRT is pushing her away further. This latest email was in the making. I was expecting it because she is right, things at home are pretty bad.
I feel that at least with GB's approach she will know my stance. Right now all that is happening is dragging this out and if I'm honest we are both suffocating.
I get how the distancing and detaching thing is supposed to work. I truly do but I also know my W. She's not going to deviate from this path so I need to let her know there is an alternative option available to her.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.