So sorry to read your story, Cindy. We all found our way here in the same kind of shock and sadness. The advice isn't always easy to follow, but it's pretty impressive how well doing counter-intuitive things work.
Keep posting, folks will keep supporting you.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
