I would respond to W's email in a single paragraph using KISS and STFU principles with a dash of validation. There have been people who have D'd and reconciled later on. As Cadet says, only YOU can get to decide this.
Post your draft here and we'll support you through this. I am curious. Have you ever said anything to W about the 'no OM' boundary?
W's Original Email
Hi
I don’t feel that things are great in the house right now and it is probably going to get worse before it gets better. We need to have a chat around our next steps regarding the house.
Can you please confirm that you are still of a mind of not accepting a settlement so that you can go and buy somewhere of your own? If this is the case, then we need to discuss selling the house and speaking to S9 about this. I would rather do this soon so that we can start making the necessary arrangements.
I don’t think it is healthy for any of us to continue as we are with no agreed way forward or timeline. If you could have a think of what you feel is the best way forward for S9 and also for us, to try and ensure we have a continuing productive relationship in the future. Please let me know your thoughts on this when you get a chance.
