Can I just add. GB if you are still around. There is also the embarrassment factor. What about my family and her having to reconnect with them? I think this is a big issue for her.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.