OMW and her R with her WH is her business, block the FB requests if you want to and if it makes life easier. I am minded about rzrbacks sitch and his WW who had a similar R with a WH and had a very hard time detaching. His wife had the most miserable time post A.
U, this A isn't going anywhere when OM is posting happy family pictures, at this stage of an A, it should be all together against the world. Clearly WW wants to play happy families too.
Your family can be very important in times like this, mums have a way of knowing too. They can ease the burden so the connection is loving and strong.
Can we look at the invitations to be with your children just a little? U some of these events may be important to your children so you may want to temper your view a little on this. Warm neighbour remember? Your children are older so the way you handle this can be very creative. Kids like your younger S and D will be relatively independent. especially if doing so is making you angry!
So what types of events are you choosing to veto?
U I will examine the post you made on Zues thread. be aware whilst anger can project you forwards it may not be the best place to D from. More in sorrow than in anger......
Peace
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW