V - You are definitely right! I don't plan on being very confrontational and will use that method sparingly. I haven't been for confrontational for months, although that is something I do struggle with on the inside, as I talk about it quite a bit here.

I'm not going to lie. I'm slightly nervous to be seeing her so consistently. I will see her Thursday night for dinner (on S's birthday), and then all day Saturday for the party.

The party is going to be very small in comparison to parties in the past, which will be good. But I will have a lot less buffers between me and her. I'm planning on not drinking that much & playing with the kids when I am not cooking.

Any advice? For interaction, this is a big week with a long to do list.

Last edited by mahhhty; 06/08/15 02:17 PM.

Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015