Sweden beyond rescue it seems.

[Georgiabelle]

Tulo,

I'm not sure if I'm fully up-to-date on your sitch, but I do recall reading your initial thread. For what it's worth, here is my 2 cents.......

No one can tell you what is best for you in regards to your physical encounters with your x bf. However, if you are left wanting more, hurt, or feeling slighted, then I'm sure you know that you should probably stop engaging physically with him. Also, don't be so sure he isn't getting it somewhere else. I don't say that to be hurtful, however it's a fact. He may say x, y or z and the reality is that he may be lying. And IF he is getting it somewhere else, he may still want to see if he can get with you as well. It's not necessarily an absolute of one or the other.

I *think* if you end the physical encounters, then you can start to heal a bit. It's not necessary to make any grand proclamations-rather just do what is best for you. I would also suggest that you stop inquiring about who he is becoming friends with, dating, etc. Honestly, you aren't together so it really isn't your concern. And that goes for your personal interests aren't his concern either. You can be cordial and pleasant, but you will only hurt yourself trying to figure out if he is or is not hooking up with other people. Others may disagree, but I suggest that you just assume he is or will be. Again, he says he doesn't want to be in a R with you. As we all know that could change, however, right now is what you are dealing with and the focus should be on Tulo's well being. Because you sound like a pretty awesome lady!

In regards to FB, well I have many past posts about what transpired on SM in my sitch. I suggest you do what feels best for you. Maybe you just hide his updates and don't unfriend. If you are *expecting* a certain reaction from him, then you will be disappointed IMHO. Because regardless of what he says or does, the end result won't be what you are looking for at this time.

Hang in there. It does get better:)