where do I begin?

[twinmom]

Back from Disney World and TIRED. The kids had a blast, it was mostly miserable for me. My mom and H's mom were on my nerves at all times. My mom mostly.

Ok I need some perspective here... we left at 2am Sunday morning so H's mom came over the night before and stayed here. I had stopped at Dunkin Donuts and gotten a coffee to reheat in the "morning" so I could have coffee without adding an extra step in getting all 5 kids and 3 adults out the door for the airport. I had my coffee (already heated) sitting on the kitchen counter and I was getting the older boys up and making sure they had their stuff when I hear H's mom say to him, "I'm just going to have some of Rachael's coffee" and proceeds to pick up my cup. H walks across the kitchen to her and tells her he is going to stop for coffee on the way to the airport.

I don't say a word till H and I are alone later that night and I tell him I don't appreciate his mom trying to drink my coffee, I told him she was welcome to make a pot (she knows where everything is in my kitchen) or she could have stopped on her way to our house like I did. He tells me he didn't think it was a big deal.

I am still irritated because both H and his mom don't think it's rude/wrong to just pick up someones coffee cup and drink it.

Perspective PLEASE! Am I just that uptight about this?



There were many other small things that made the trip stressful BUT the kids never saw that stuff and just enjoyed the vacation so I am happy about that.