Sweden beyond rescue it seems.

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Hi guys,

So it's been a hard week and I haven't felt able to put any thoughts together so anyone would be able to put them together into something that made sense.

I've been lousy at all the DB rules and detaching. On Wednesday last week, he came to me to exchange keys, and it ended up with sex.
I could have easily prevented it but when we texted back and forth about how we should meet up, I suggested that I could come to him when his S was asleep for the night but he then replied if exchanging keys was all I wanted to do because otherwise he could come by my place.

I said that he could come and we did. And he came, we had sex twice and then he gave me my key and left.
I felt great then and there =Yay, he still gets off on me and wants me =he hasn't gotten involved with anyone else.

Silly silly stupid me. A brief text at night, and then nothing. We still had stuff to exchange and yesterday I called him around noon to see if I could drop stuff of. No reply. Waited one hour, sent brief text saying "Hi there, hope all is well. Drop me a line when you get the chance".
8 hours no reply. Felt so bad and worthless.

Called him as I was on my way to friends house and he picked up. He was working on his car at his place of work. Asked if I could come, he said yes. Gave me a hug and kiss on the cheek. I promise that if I'd been open to it he would have wanted sex again.

But I wasn't at all open to it. Especially as I just had found out that he had been seen at a thing in the village where he grew up the previous day with a woman and her son enjoying the fair that was on that day. I couldn't help but to feel lousy about it and ask him about it. According to him he's allowed to do what ever he wants (as he is) and that if he wants to bring someone for a day out he can.

As it turns out he had been out dancing the Friday before, same day as we had sex last, and had met another woman (my ex neighbour) and she added him on FB after and had been approaching him to go out for coffee but he hadn't replied as she was "too eager" apparently. When I said I had seen them becoming friends on FB as it showed up on my feed, he said that "so you are going through my FB now?" but retracted that and said he didn't think I did that before we said goodbye.

So, what is it I have to do? DETACH DETACH DETACH!
It feels like all hope is lost and he is so out there, and ready to move on. He said that he hadn't moved on yet but I can tell that it's just a matter of time and since he's not getting sex from me anymore he'll probably go out and get it someplace else soon.

So, question.. Would you unfriend him on FB, or does that seem weak? Considering the fact that he said that it might be easier for me to not be friends as I might not be completely him.

I also know that he has a bit of a controlling thing with FB and I'm sure that he keeps tabs on me and what I do. Maybe to cut him off, so to speak, would make him feel like I'm lost to him finally.

He said that he thought I'm amazing and that we had such an great R but he just doesn't feel anything for me anymore. And that he misses the great sex we've always had and couldn't help these last few times but that didn't mean that he had feelings for me.