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[Vanilla]

Msd

I am relieved you are posting.

A good L is important even vital to you, that is part of your IRL support system.

For my part I believe you have DB well and with a very difficult work sitch, the issue is H, and in house S is very tough. Especially when you are in job related accommodation.

As I follow your journey Msd, I see that you have travelled a hard road, uphill, rocky and full of pits. Not once did you stumble, yes you rested a little from time to time as needed, but you climbed that hill and kept on going, the top ridge is in sight and the view of the sun rise is spectacular. Dearest one you have worked to turn yourself, your work and your M around. I read your effort and am so proud of your achievements.

Msd, you are a success and I feel so grateful to have witnessed that and to acknowledge that to you. Any one who reads your posts can see that Msd will stand proud for who she is. Msd did not crumble and give in, that is the essence of DB. The core of Msd standing for her M and for herself and her children. Doing that which works. As long as you want to stand for your M and let the A burn out is your choice and besides the fat lady has not sung yet.

OW is behaving in an exceedingly poisonous, brazen and nasty way. As far as this piece of work is concerned H has no issues crossing over between work and personal. He will rue the day he got involved with the poison chalice. I really agree with you, the more you rise above the scuzzy then the more free of this tacky A you will be.

I sense Msd you are becoming 'unstuck', in the same way OD is becoming unstuck. It means moving on the Kubler Ross grief curve. Anger can be your friend if it propels you to action. I know it will.

Stand proud of who you are Msd, you are truly special

V