Surviving the rollercoaster by getting off two.

[Karma12]

So tonight my STBX sent me an email to help out my Brother in his custody issues with his ex. Lol. He really is very intelligent and I think missed his calling. He'd make a great Lawyer.

Some of what he wrote reminded me of the arguments he gave his lawyer when we were fighting for custody of SD. Eg....the material change is he is now married in a long term stable relationship. The child has bonded with the Step Mother whom is a positive maternal role model. She will benefit from a large extended family.

I felt tempted to write back thx....too bad SD doesn't get to live the life you promised which was all of above. Of course I didn't. What I did write back was.

Thanks! I will send this to them right away. They will be very Happy to get it as they are meeting with their lawyer tomorrow at 3. I added that my my brother M was very lucky to have his wife M stand by him through this. She has been good to my niece and provided a nice home for them. When the chips are down that's all that really matters. Having your family there for you. Heading to bed now...thx again....K. Little message in there....hahaha.

My brother was very grateful though as the info STBX provided will be helpful. I said yep he's good for something's....hahaha.