I'm like you when it comes to online dating. I have no problem letting someone I'm not interested in go. One thing I have learned though is don't beat yourself up if someone doesn't reply. They may find you attractive but are currently connecting with someone else. Sometimes people chat go on a few dates and leave the site. Sometimes they chat go on a couple dates and it doesn't work out so they are back online. It's all a big numbers game so don't take it too personally. Someone that doesn't really know you can't reject you because they don't know you....make sense...kinda? Lol
One thing I have learned in life is forgiveness is not for the other person. It is for you. It doesn't mean what they did was ok. It doesn't mean you have to have a relationship with them. It means you let go of the bitterness and negative energy that their behavior caused you. : )
My STBX is not seriously ill. I don't think anyway. He is needing to find out why he keeps having stomach pains and watching what he eats. It's sounding like gall bladder issues to me. His latest fling left for a new job across the country a month ago. She didn't seem to mind leaving him behind. Lol Now it is his turn to think about things.
I'm taking a break on online dating. I haven't really met anyone I get butterflies over. just dying to live my life and find happiness in each day. I have a busy Summer planned. All we can do is keep moving forward. You never know what's around the next bend.
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
