Asitis,
All great points. Take all those and add the mentality of a wayward and you really have a recipe for uncertainty. Thanks for the support!

HeavyD,
I completely agree. I only check her phone records once or twice a month. I do so strategically just to see if there's anything there to validate STBX's behavior or comments. Other than that, I stay away for my own sanity's sake!


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15