Asitis, All great points. Take all those and add the mentality of a wayward and you really have a recipe for uncertainty. Thanks for the support!
HeavyD, I completely agree. I only check her phone records once or twice a month. I do so strategically just to see if there's anything there to validate STBX's behavior or comments. Other than that, I stay away for my own sanity's sake!
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15