Sending you a big hug V. I'm sure as you unclutter your house from your H's stuff, your heart and mind will rest with more ease as well.
You're a total rockstar for handling your sitch as you have in addition to being such a great supporter of everyone on this board.
If I lived closer you'd have a personal assistant to carry boxes to the van and/or trash!
Thanks Pg, I feel freer already. RD to help, done in a flash.
I offer my friends who carry boxes etc, a good homemade curry (with chutney) cheese (of course) and a glass of vino with some shared laughter till the sun goes down. Those on trash duty get extra helpings for sheer gumption.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 06/07/1511:11 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
V....there is nothing plain about you! You have so much to give and deserve the same back. It is hard to watch someone go down as you have with your H. If you didn't let go of the rope he would have dragged you right down with him. It's going to take time but you will rebuild your life. I wish only the best for you my friend.
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
U turn, extra it is. Welcome to Vs thread and thank you for the hugs.
Karma, I am so pleased for your sitch, I am still afraid that I will go under. A whole weekend of moving H stuff and packing up. A complete waste of time that I need for my business on a wasteful man (wasterel). Today I carted everything back for H to collect and he announces that he is not coming. Tomorrow H goes away for 10 days to Madeira to play golf.
Today I felt so bad I haven't worked and I need to pick up speed. Very tired and I ate rubbish, feeling so tired, so very very weary today. I think I might have a bladder infection too, so gallons of water and protective Antiba. Bed rest.
A hot bath is in order and some sleep, maybe that is the best I can do for today. Perhaps that is what I should accept. just do some accounts posting or invoice sorting. Or more work on time sheets. Needs doing but not urgent.
That way I get to move forwards. Just do something for today.
Rest awhile and enjoy it.
I may wash my sheets and get that done.
Onwards and upwards.
V
Good news H is away for 10 days. So nothing will move and there is still much to clear, I have only just started at the Big House. At least the Brighton flat is cleared.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
A hot bath is in order and some sleep, maybe that is the best I can do for today.
You cant tackle tomorrows problems if you don't take care of yourself today. Look at it as an investment to tomorrow. Sleep, nice bath, find something good to eat. Just relax and recharge your batteries.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
My staff who are being evicted are living with me. Made a chicken Tagine from left over chicken, peppers,onions, garlic, tomatoes and fresh spices. Absolutely delicious. I made some pilau rice. A portion for u with chutney.
Enough to share.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
