Heavy, I think lots of people who have A's say this to their partner. Maybe it is because they don't want people to focus on the AP as the one who broke up their M. It is a better narrative for them to say - oh, it was all but over anyway...and then I just met this really great gal, and so on.

Please don't drive yourself crazy over it. I think it is a pretty common pattern when someone has an A. Enjoy your day!


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus