Hi hope (pun intended).
Yea, I read your thread. That's pretty harrowing. Sad how quickly it goes south, right? I think you are doing the best you can. Do whatever is necessary to protect the kids.

Folks around here always say focus on you. That's always a good thing and I agree with that.

The OM sounds like a real scumbag. I'd want to keep my kids away from him as well.

Good luck my friend.

Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.