Well, that just goes to show you, have no expectations. I just dropped off kids with in laws and STBX was still sleeping. Honestly, I lingered a bit, talking with her parents and playing with the kids, to see if STBX would wake up. Eventually she did. Everyone made a little more small talk and then I started preparing my exit. STBX wanted her and the kids to walk me out. I said my goodbyes to the kids and walked to my car door. I thought maybe she wanted to give me a hug but I already was at the side of my car. She did ask me what I was doing today. I just mentioned that I had some errands and whatnot (not too mysterious, I know). From there, I had a great big smile and waved as I drove away.
Huh? I thought for sure she was going to pull me aside to talk and I was ready for it. Oh well, I definitely wasn't going to force it. So confusing. No big deal though. I will just stay consistent, but be ready if an opportunity presents itself.
Hi mate. Yea, the old mind reading thing. You think you know what's going to happen, you prep for it and......nada.
After a while I just started to stop (contradiction, I know) trying to second guess what's going to happen. Just let what will be be. The biggest thing I have in my arsenal right now is to expect her spew. When it happens I know to just get outa dodge. Apart from that, no expectations.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
