Upon from my fishing trip I let the WW know that I would be late Friday since I had plans with a friend. Had a great time Friday night and ended up getting home at 4am. When I got home I found the WW in my bed???I was too tired to discuss boundaries so I fell into bed for a few hours of needed sleep. When I woke up the WW was gone, along with the $40 I left on the night stand. This bothered me but no need to get upset so I simply let her know if she needed money to let me know and I would transfer it to her account.
While getting ready to head out to S12's BB game I realized I left my wallet in my friends car. I asked the WW for any change she had from the $40 and explained that my wallet was MIA.
WW let me know she could not attend S12's games since she didn't have any gas and I just said Ok. Later she text me that she wanted to come to the game but decided to have a girls day with D8 at the mall. I replied that was probably best and to have fun.
I made plans to pick my wallet up later in the afternoon and after I got cleaned up the WW asked how long I would be gone. When I told her I would be gone a few hours she asked if I should take my S12 with me to which I said nope.
WW is so random and unpredictable I can see how it played my emotions in the past. I no longer try to read her mind or look for signals. I honestly no longer care what she is up to.
I no longer need her to be happy and regardless of how this turns out it will be a happy ending.
Hope everyone has a Funday Sunday!
Me42 W40 S12 D8 M:15yrs BD 3/27/15 D filed 4/27/15
