Well pit 25 years I am not sure what to ponder. Maybe nothing. Maybe can I be married to a chronic liar. Maybe has H always been a chronic liar. I know he has lied in the past thru out our M. Maybe I GAL and ponder what do I really need in my life because I agree life is short and I want to be happy and not always looking over my shoulder wondering what's the truth and what's a lie.