So she sent me 2 texts yesterday about what her and my D2 were doing. I don't understand this. I waited about 45 minutes and just said "sounds good" then she told me when they'd be home and I didn't respond. Kind of odd she wants a D but she wants me to know what she's doing. She got home at 930 and our D2 never goes to bed past 830....ever. If I came home at 930 with D2 my W would trip out. I didn't take the bait though. Happy and upbeat for me
Just roll with it. The ways of the WW can't be rationalized. She wants you as her friend, so she may send these kinds of messages.
As for coming in late, as long as you aren't concerned for her safety, I wouldn't question about it unless it starts becoming really regular and starts affecting D2's behavior.