Thank you so much for the words of wisdom and well wishes, Job and Wonka!
My wife and I just got home from our trip away. We were waited on hand and foot and spoiled like crazy... it was quite an amazing resort. We did a lot of fun things together and even had a tiny bit of action... which, after 3+ years was totally amazing.
Had some serious discussion too, and some realizations on my part. More to come...
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
which, after 3+ years was totally amazing. 
