Just Fishin'

[Vanilla]

Mahhhty

I see your wise words on others threads and thought I would visit and say hi.

I usually follow Toots around agreeing with her. It's quite a trending skill.

In this case the negative option will speed things up decision wise.

My caution would be to treat that method like gold dust and on important issues. let the unimportant take their time to resolve. Use sparingly and when needed, what doctors refer to as the minimal effective dose. A cooperative ex is worth more in the longer run. It's kind of training exW to respond, you wouldn't use a stick when a carrot is better. And if there is no hurry in the journey why use the whip, just pootle. It will be more effective and you won't be perceived as always impatient.

And who wouldn't want to be at a fun party?

Smiles

V