DifRent's Journey - 27 days in, thread 2

[DifRent]

Question: it's Saturday night, the WW is out with the OW hitting the town. I've been deliberately making the house a cold place for her to come to at night... all the lights off, dishes might be piled up in the sink, she has to go through all of that to get to bed upstairs. Would it be better to make her return more welcoming and reminiscent of happier times? Lights on, nice scents throughout the house, a sense of warmth and cleanliness? If anyone has any experience with this... just curious. I made it hard during detachment, but wondering if I went too far...