I found out my husband of 25 yrs had 2 affairs( one a while back and one recent & both younger) on April 29th, it was a total shock as everthing was normal at home, we never argued. Now, I just finished the Divorce Busting Book & I loved it and I so want to be able to do that because I miss my best friend. I stuggle with the making my goal list & undertanding which steps I should do first... My husband has moved out when I approched him with the information I received & all he said that he loves me but he didn't think he was in love with me. We have 2 daughters, one 22 & one 20, he's 45 and Im 44 & he said that he is done done & that he wants to be alone, no one to report to and be free to do what he wants to do. We text & talk everyday, we are close friend, we both prefer it this way so far. We work well together for our fiances & he comes at the house oftern for coffee & long conversations. I have got help from a social worker & a therapist because Iam so sad & I need help. I want my marriage back & my husband back. Please help me to understand what's first for me.
