Well I survived the day. Just to recap, it was S12 ... no S13's birthday yesterday (Saturday) and I agreed to doing some activity all together.
In the end, we did one of my ideas which was to go Scalextric racing, and then went for a meal. I told myself to keep calm, STFU, and put on a happy face for my boys.
And I did it. V signs were minimal and out of sight, mutterings, also minimal and restrained. I largely ignored ww apart from when we really did need to decide some things ... oh, and I held firm over my change of visiting week when she said she'd arranged something in a few weeks time.
I had a laugh and a good time with my boys and she was there too. Time for sleep now.
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner