Rysinmans climb after WAW! #2

[25yearsmlc]

Dear RysinMn

Geez, I'm actually deeply conflicted for you.

On one hand, I think laughing about her wacky hypocrisy & loony behavior is the healthiest approach to take, (as long as you are also CYA legally!)

It's probably the best choice. Good for you. I see a lot of growth for real.

But OTOH, dang, I would also really want to calmly confront her about what you "BELIEVE" is happening ("no conclusive proof, just a lot of evidence")

and how genuinely disappointed you are with her blindingly obvious double standards.

Is she trying to justify her A, after fhe fact, and if so, WHY and For whom? Her mom? Her friends?

Everyone in the area knows the truth. This really seems beneath her, even given the adultery. You have "let go" of your anger about the affair WHILE you were deployed b/c "it's" not worth anymore energy on your part. ( Too busy GAL)

Still, It's one thing to break your vows & justify it however, she does,

it's a whole other thing to attack YOUR integrity and project her own shortcomings onto you.

And to what end? More money? Harming your career? Really, w?

Why not ask her to just leave you alone, as she has asked you to do for her,

and let you both move forward freely and happily? You have set her free!

Perhaps you can say, in an upbeat but serious tone, that you wish her well,

and that you are actually grateful for the personal wake up call ---b/c it's motivated you "to make a lot of changes

and become a better man" (leave unsaid the "So eat your heart out, xw. I'm everything you always wanted me to be, but now it'll be for MY next w")

MAYBE MAYBE add that her following you or "Showing up coincidentally"

and calling your contact list --as your sister said it was her voice,

just reflects so poorly on her. Then leave & go GAL.


Because I mean, WTF?